Cats may not be able to speak to us directly, but years of research into their behaviors have given us insight into their needs and emotions. Here are 18 things your cat wishes you knew.
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I Don’t Like Being Picked Up
While you may want to give your cat a hug or cuddle, it’s important to remember that not all cats enjoy being picked up. Cats often prefer to initiate interactions and may feel uncomfortable if they are picked up when they aren’t in the mood. It’s best to respect their space and let them come to you.
Just Because I’m Purring Doesn’t Mean I’m Happy
Purring is often associated with contentment, but cats also purr when they are stressed, frightened, unwell, or in pain. Cats use purring as a self-soothing technique, and it’s important to pay attention to their body language. A cat who is purring due to discomfort might display negative signs, such as laying their ears flat or hiding.
I Don’t Show Pain
Cats are excellent at hiding pain due to their instincts in the wild. A cat in pain might be vulnerable to predators, so they mask their symptoms. As a result, subtle signs of illness may go unnoticed. It’s up to us as cat owners to spot these signs and get them the help they need.
I Need to Patrol My Territory
Outdoor cats often appear indecisive when they ask to go out and then immediately want to come back in. This behavior is rooted in their territorial nature. Cats like to patrol their space to ensure there are no intruders. They feel the need to check on their surroundings regularly, which is why they may dislike closed doors.
My Litter Box Is My Special Place
A cat’s litter box should be kept clean and in a private, easily accessible location. Cats are particular about their litter box, and keeping it well-maintained is essential to their well-being. In multi-cat households, it’s a good idea to have an extra litter box to avoid competition.
When I Slowly Blink at You, It Means I Trust You
If your cat slowly blinks at you, it’s a sign of trust. Cats only display this behavior around people and other animals they are bonded with. Closing their eyes around you is a significant gesture of affection and a way to communicate their comfort.
Cats Do Not Like Strangers
Cats prefer to be in control of their environment, and strangers bring unfamiliar scents and sounds. This often causes anxiety in cats, who may hide when an unknown person or animal enters their space. It’s important to respect your cat’s need for security and privacy.
Don’t Punish Me for Things I Can’t Help
Sometimes, cats may urinate outside their litter box due to health problems like urinary tract infections or stress-related issues. This behavior is not meant to spite you. Understanding that these actions often stem from a physical or emotional issue will help you respond appropriately.
I Like My Routine
Cats thrive on routine. Stable feeding and play times help reduce their stress and make them feel secure. Even minor changes, like switching their litter brand or a bigger change like the arrival of a new baby, can cause stress. Keep their routine as consistent as possible for a happier cat.
I Need Entertainment
Cats are intelligent creatures who require mental stimulation. Offering toys, scratching posts, or a cat tree can keep them engaged, especially if they spend time alone. Food-based puzzles and videos featuring animals can also provide entertainment and mental exercise.
You Are Mine for Life
Cats form strong bonds with their owners, often showing a preference for one person in the household. When your cat rubs against you, they are marking you with their scent, claiming you as their own, and reinforcing their bond.
I Don’t Like the Scents You Like
Cats have a much stronger sense of smell than humans and can be sensitive to certain scents. They dislike smells like citrus, mint, cinnamon, onions, vinegar, lavender, and rosemary. Understanding their aversions can help you create a more comfortable environment for them.
I Need Help With Grooming
While cats are generally fastidious groomers, they may need help, especially long-haired breeds. Regular brushing helps prevent hairballs, keeps their coat clean, and strengthens the bond between you and your cat.
I Need Your Attention
Despite their reputation for independence, cats crave human interaction. Playing, cuddling, and spending time with your cat will make them feel loved and secure. Research has shown that cats even prefer social interaction over food or toys.
I Have a Need to Scratch
Scratching is a natural instinct for cats. It helps them stretch, mark their territory, and maintain their claws. Instead of discouraging scratching altogether, provide appropriate scratching posts to redirect their behavior.
I Feel Your Stress and Anxiety
Cats are highly sensitive animals and can pick up on our emotions through subtle changes in our body language and facial expressions. Whether you’re stressed or upset, your cat can sense it. Many cats will seek comfort by sitting on your lap or rubbing against your legs when you’re feeling down.
I Hate High-Pitched Sounds
Cats are particularly sensitive to high-pitched noises like those made by vacuum cleaners, fireworks, and video games. Loud sounds can cause stress and anxiety, so it’s important to create a calm environment for your cat, where they feel safe and secure.
I Need a Nutritious Diet
Cats, like all animals, need a balanced diet to thrive. As obligate carnivores, they require plenty of meat in their diet. Avoid feeding them low-quality foods with too many fillers like corn, which can cause allergies and poor health. Opt for a diet rich in high-quality meat protein for a healthier, happier cat.
I Value My Personal Space
Cats have different preferences when it comes to closeness. Some enjoy cuddling, while others prefer solitude. It’s crucial to respect their need for personal space. Observe their body language to understand when they want to be left alone and provide them with cozy spots to retreat to when they need rest.